womenspeak replied to your post “My friends came over. Ate some popcorn and shandy we offered them (let…”
I dont think guests are obliged to clean up. It would be nice but it’s not convention.
Strangers to my house aren’t obliged, I always suggest they leave the dishes alone. Friends I’ve personally invited over for a lime and fanfare aren’t obliged to clean up, but they sure as hell do because they know I don’t go over to their place and leave dirty dishes (especially not on their couches).
Friends who call me, come over to my house at night, after N + I have been working 10+ hrs, to utilise my resources, reach when I’m having dinner with my boo (which we paused to give said friends a tour of our new place) and I offer them something to snack on, and leave dirty dishes on my couch?….no. All levels of no.